Success

As you've been dealing with Aspergers, be that days, weeks, months, or years, I'm sure you have wondered what It would be like without Aspergers, and what it will be like when you are able to minimize it. "What might it be like when I'm successful in this war?". Sound familiar? Okay, you probably don't think that way, but my point is to bring up success, hence the title.

If you've never done something like this before, read the next few sentences and try it out. Close your eyes, stop paying attention to your surroundings, and imagine yourself without Aspergers. What does it look like? Is it indescribable? Your biggest enemy in life bowing at your feet surrendering.

When you reach that point, do you picture yourself visiting a docter who tells you there's nothing wrong with you? Do you simply imagine how it would be to appear and feel normal? I can't answer that for you, that's something you need to do.

Where am I going with this? I'm trying to get at the fact that how you picture your future is important. It comes down to what you want out of life. Does success mean fitting in while in public? Does it mean being an amazing and outgoing individual? Or does it simply mean having emotional control?

For me, I don't want to be just average. If I was average, I wouldn't be writing a blog to help people (and myself at that).

Ask yourself, do I really want to be average? Can you minimize the negative effects of Aspergers and nurture the positive ones? Only you define what success is for yourself, and that's what you aim for. You decide when your happy with yourself.

The important part is that you get to decide what you want to be.

It's something to think about at least. Remember, ruminating on things makes you a better person. This is Jordan from teenaspergers.blogspot.com signing off.